Family is not an important thing, it's everything.

A few weeks ago my nephew became engaged to my besties daughter.
This event allowed me a rare opportunity to spend a few weeks with my brother and his family here in Miami.
Although they live 1000's of miles away, thanx to technology we are in constant touch.
I have grown to learn that distance does not matter if two hearts are loyal to one another.
I keep a picture of them in my heart and carry it everywhere.
Sounds a little mushy, but it's true.
My brother's wife is like a sister to me.
We laugh, we cry, we connect across the miles like there is no space between us.
Coming from a large family has given us many opportunities to be together.
As our children grow older we reunite for many a Simcha
The last two celebrations were of their son getting married, and my son getting married.
I would say that is a great reason to scrapbook.
Memories like that need to be recorded.
Each time I look at the layouts I relive the priceless experience of being together.

Any layout with hearts is sure to be a good one.
As you can see here I matted the picture with a solid color and a print.
Adding hearts with the same paper brings it all together.
Cut out as many hearts as you can and add it to a layout.
You will be sure to love it.

Peaceout!

I'm still recuperating from Pesach.
Lots of wonderful things happening.
My besties daughter got engaged to my brother's son.
(more on that later!)
I'm also looking to make some changes in my working life.
(more on that later too!)

Life is full of ebb and flow.
And while I ride on the wave of it all, I like to zone out!
Lucky for me I have lots of creative outlets.
Sometimes I can create in a way that zones me IN!
Other times I create and I zone OUT!
Zentangle/Doodles is my 'take me away' creative outlet.
Uses no brain cells.
Only simple lines and circles that end up being....something!
My youngest asked me 'what's the point of your doodles?'
Good question.
How can I explain to a youngster
that learning how to become oblivious to your surroundings
in order to relax
is the greatest gift you can give yourself?
Only as an adult can you understand that zoning out is tuning in.
Being oblivious to your surroundings means becoming aware of yourself.
Life is a contradiction at times, just as we are.
When I was younger contradictions made me feel unsure of myself.
Now I feel inspired, stimulated, invigorated by seeming contradictions.
I choose to define contradiction as paradoxically.
According to American Heritage Cultural Dictionary  paradox is defined this way:

A statement that seems contradictory or absurd but is actually valid or true.  

According to one proverbial paradox, we must sometimes be cruel in order to be kind...

If you get that then you are an adult!

Here are a few examples of my brain having fun.

Started sketching this one while sitting on the beach by myself.

This water color flower was inspired by another one of my favorite girls.
Check out her blog .
I even bought one of her classes.
AWESOME!

Some of you may think I'm crazy.

Wondering how much time i have on my hands.

But I will say there are a few rules I go by:

Kitchen must be cleaned from dinner.

Dishes must be washed.

Nothing more pressing needs my attention.

Then and only then do I give my brain permission to fly.

How about it? 

Wanna give it a try?

Go for it.

NOW!

 

 

 

”You can't cross the sea merely by standing and staring at the water.” -- Rabindranath Tagore

Creative beings are always looking to draw inspiration from somewhere.
We need constant stimulation.
When I began scrap booking I subscribed to 2 wonderful magazines.
Scrapbooks etc. and Creating keepsakes.
I still love the days they come in the mail.
I take my mags. to a quiet place and slowly study each page for new ideas and suggestions.
As the years passed and I became computer savvy I made friends
(or just became a fan) of fellow scrapbookers.
This week I will show you how to be inspired.
It's almost the same as scrap lifting. 
And you don't have to wait for your magazine to come.
There are a few ladies that I absolutely loooove because of their consistent style.
Today I will introduce you to two of them.
You will clearly see how I draw my inspiration from them and then make it my own.
My daughter Rachel  took some fun and funky pictures of her sister.
There will be many different ways that I will be preserving these memories.
Here's my first.
After I saw this post I was inspired to make this:

Another one of my top 3 creative genius scrappers is this fabulous lady.
I discovered her several years ago and she continues to fascinate me with her unique style.
She inspired me to make this one:

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As you can see I don't have one style that I prefer to use to express myself.
There are many moods to my work.
And I love that.
Some of the time I like to work with straight lines.
And other times I like to free fall!
What is your style?
If you don't have it down pat yet, don't fret.
The fun is in the search.
Trying different ways.
Exploring.
Finding.
Being stimulated and inspired.
That's what it's all about for me.
The end result is besides the point.
It's the process that means everything....

Welcome Spring into your life.

I learned something this Pesach once again.
Something I already know.
I am so lucky to have my grandchildren with me.
They remind me how to be happy.
I always love ways to express happiness.
With words.
With food.
With crafts.
Especially with children.
Their smiles are pure.
Their joy simple and as authentic as anything could be.
What do we learn from these innocent little people?

they live in the present

they have no concerns about money, productivity, or being cool

there are no limits to their imagination, except what they’ve been exposed to

they play and lose themselves in play

they create with abandon

they are endlessly curious, and ask questions … without end

they love showing off to their parents

Which brings me to my post.
I borrowed this one today.
It represents exactly what I want to express to you all.
And I want to share this wonderful lady's blog with you anyway.
She always finds the perfect way to create wonderful happy things with her children.

THIS BLOG will show you exactly how to make these.
How can you resist?
What a great way to go into Spring.
I know I am looking forward to find new ways to create scrapbook pages that reflect everyday happiness.
That is what keeps me motivated.
No matter how small, squeeeeeze the joy out of it until the memory is nothing but good.
And as you string little happy beads together, before long you find that you've created a necklace that is colorful with happy memories...
Try it.
It really works.
Take a paper right now and record something wonderful.
Put the date on it.
You've made a memory.

Here's one from last year.
I think she is as cute as the lolly above.

This is a great way to use a smaller photo.
Make a lolly with a popsicle stick.
Add a little bow.
Layer the photo with a brightly colored frame.
Print the quote and cut each word seperately.
Use three matching sheets of paper.
I personally love stripes and dots together.
Add any flowers, or circles to enhance your layout.
Make it your own.
Pay attention to details that enhance the main picture.
That's the lesson here.
Pay attention.
And make a happy memory.

Adults are always asking kids what they want to be when they grow up because they are looking for ideas.
Paula Poundstone

Happy Birthday to me!

This week was my birthday.
Although there are many things that I hope for...
There are even more blessings I am grateful for.
Thank you Hashem for all that you've given me.
Thank you again and again.
And thank you for giving me the opportunity to celebrate with my children in New York.
(the lighting was perfect for me!)

The more I want to get something done, the less I call it work...

Every year now for 20 odd years I've been making Pesach.
Usually when you do anything that long you would think it gets easier.
The only thing that gets easier is.....nothing actually.
But not being easy doesn't mean it's bad.
Or not fun.
Or not exciting.
Anticipating the week of Yom Tov can be a paradox of emotions.
First thing in the morning I feel an overwhelming sense of panic regarding  'THE LIST'.
As the days pass I feel accomplished.
I race through the day crossing numbers off the 'THE LIST'.
And finally the night comes when I can no longer run anymore and I fall in to a fitful sleep thinking about all the things I got done.
Then I wake up and start over!
As my guests start arriving from out-of-town I feel an overwhelming sense of peace in my heart.
What is better than having all your children together under one roof?
What is nicer than waking up in the morning to two little grinning faces?
What could be more invigorating than preparing a delicious meal and enjoying the appreciation...
(Ma, You're amazing!)
It's a high that lasts for a long time.
The kind of high that doesn't drain you.
Or make you feel empty when you finally land.
It actually fills you up and gives you fuel to want Pesach to start all over again

In my experience, nothing worthwhile has ever really been all that easy. But it certainly has been worthwhile regardless how difficult it seemed. ”   
― Robert Fanney

The most important job is already done.
I am now officially obsessed with decoupage.
It's another fun craft that anyone can do.
Don't start Erev Pesach like I did.
But then again, why not?
For all the lucky guests coming to 'mi casa' for Pesach.
Souvenir's for everyone!
I can't wait.
What about you?

I watch my children grow...

No matter how old my child is I am always proud as I  watch my them grow.
Not in age.
In constantly becoming better versions of themselves.
One challenge at a time.
Challenges in life are never easy.
We all have them.
I love it when I see their strength.
I love it when I see them taking responsibility for their life choices.
I love it when they see the fruits of their labor.
It might take a little longer for some than for others.
But I have  patience to watch.
Because I know it's coming.
And the longer it takes the better it is when it finally happens.
IT  being the lightbulb moment.
The  'AHA' moment.
We all have them.
If our eyes are open we see it.
And that's what life is about.
Growth.
Every day.
Every minute.
Push through and get to the other side.
Makes me proud...

Making a layout  is sometimes more meaningful than when I say it.
Because it is always ready to be picked up and believed all over again...

We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.”
― Katharine Hepburn, Me: Stories of My Life

I'm proud of my children for slowly learning that to be true...

So go ahead and scrapbook a compliment.

It will be testament forever and ever to how you feel.

Never to be forgotten.

Because I am generally a critical discerning person, I think it is vital for me to document praise and admiration to the people I care about most.

You know how you feel when you've created something truly special.

You're not just crafting.

You're preserving a lifetime of cherished memories.

It's never too late...

No matter how young or how old, how little or how much education you have, how little or how much money you have you CAN live the life of YOUR dreams starting now.

It's Never Too Late

It’s never too late to have an incredible day.
You may be having the worst day of your life.
Things might not be going your way and it may feel like your moving backwards but it’s never too late.
There is always a ray of sunshine, a glimmer of hope or an opportunity for a leap of faith.
This is your day and it has been given to you as a gift.
Challenge yourself to find the positive.
Reach out and draw strength from your family and all the wonderful positive beauty that they have to offer.           
Focus on those wonderful thoughts and turn this day around for the better.
Be the master of your domain.
Don’t let your day take control of you. You take control of it!
The experience you have gained from the power of turning your bad day into a positive one will only serve to make you a better and stronger person and this will have an incredibly powerful affect on your family.
Take control now because it’s never too late. Your family is counting on you!
~J. Charest

 This article caught my attention.

So do what you've always dreamed of doing.

If you're not a kid anymore, be a kid again.

That's a great way to begin.

Remeber what you enjoyed doing when you were little.

Just play.

Be free of your adult voice telling you to 'stay still and stop making noise.'

Make noise.

Dance.

Do it when you're alone.

Free of any critics who say 'you shouldn't'...

I love 'Maxine' cartoons.

They make me giggle.

So I did a layout about her.

And me.

Just for fun.

That's what I'm talkin' about.

Not everything has to be so serious all the time.

Take a break.

Be nice to yourself.

Laugh a little.

Or a lot.

Whatever floats your boat.

Excersize your creativity muscle.

Try something new.

Ask yourself.

What do I love to do?

And do it.

NOW!

I'm starting for Pesach. Are you?

If there is one sentence that strikes fear in any Jewish balabuste's heart, it's
"Have you started to clean for pesach yet?".
My mind goes blank.
My hands feel cold.
My heart stops for a minute.
It's only natural to react this way.
I close my eyes.
Trying to visualize something peaceful and serene.
Doesn't work.
But I am  not ready to get the ball rolling  yet.
The earlier I start, the longer it lasts.
Like pregnancy.
If you don't talk about it for the first few months it doesn't seem so long an endurance!
So I do what I do best.
Distract myself.
With my papers, paint glue and scissors.

I had this lightbulb idea.
I will start to prepare for Pesach.
But in a different way.
How about I make souveneirs this year for any guests that come for Pesach?
That sounds like something I could start doing early.
So I take out my stuff and go to work play.
It takes a little more than a couple of hours of going back and forth to come up with this.
Vases for everyone!
On the house!
Decorated by MOI!
This is the first of a bunch more I will be making.
The one who helps the most on Pesach gets first pick.
Just in case one is prettier than the other, that would be worth something.
But then again, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
What do you guys think?
Do you like it?
I think I do.
I say 'I think' because I'm never quite sure.

I wrote "Life is full of beauty. Pay attention. You don't want to miss it."
             "Why live in black and white when you can live in color?"

I have different shapes and sizes of glass vases.
I'm excited to see how they will turn out.
The poppy flower was an inspiration from one of my favorite girls.
She makes me want to create all day...
So as all of you are beginning to prepare for Pesach, So am I.
Just in a different way!

More to come...

There is no such thing as the pursuit of happiness, only the discovery of joy.

"It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy. Lorimer, George Claude

Yesterday was PURIM .
I wish I was with all my children and grandchildren.
I spent it with my friends instead.
And I was joyful.
Because that's what Purim is about.
Last year we had Purim at our house.
We had a grand time.
I've just gotten around to making a layout about it.
Brings back such fun memories.
Much more than you can see on this layout.
For that you need a complete video!

I don't necessarily enjoy scrapping lots of photos.
But sometimes you must.
It's not artsy.
But it still speaks to me.
Here's a preview of this years Purim.
I will be scrapping them at some point.
I doubt it will be before Pesach.
But y'never know...

...........and the best Mishloach Manos award goes to.......

Cake in a jar.
How cool is that!
Made by my one and only Daughter-in-law.
I know you're thinking I'm biased.
But you've got to admit.
This is a pretty great idea.
AND beautifully executed.
My second best is this one below.
From adorable parents of twin boys.
Theme being duck duck goose.
(As in Grey Goose!)

So there you are.
Another Purim gone.
I'm holding on hard to the Joy part.
Hope you do too!
Until next year...

I order you to be happy!

Every Jewish month has a special meaning.
Entering the month of Adar we are told to increase our joy.
But what if one is not happy by nature?
Can you order someone to be happy?
Yes!
Happiness and the lack of it , are not so much as results of reality.
They are our perception of it.
If it's in your control, YOU change it.
And that's an order!
Happiness is not always easy to find.
If we're looking for it in the wrong places.
For me happiness is accomplishment.
Physical and/or spiritual.
When I feel 'down' I know I need to do something - fast.
That's where scrapbooking comes in.
It helps me focus on happy moments in a way that makes it seem like they last longer than they actually do.
It magnifies good times.
So if you want to scrap and you're not feeling it try this.
Putting yourself in a happy place can simply start with a smile.
Look in the mirror.
Smile at yourself.
See? I bet you feel better already.
Because actions trigger feelings.
Turn up the corners of your mouth.
Your mood will change.
JUST AS ORDERED!
A few months ago this lovely lady came to have her sheitels done for her grandaughter's wedding.
My husband remembered her from when he was a child living in Montreal.
She remembered him too.
What's amazing about that is that this wonderful woman is 98 K"H!
Just look at her smile.
That's the one you'll want to keep.

                                                flowers doodled by yours truly
This is a simple layout with a burst of colors.
I wanted that to be a reflection of Mrs. Kagen's personality.
Layer solid cardstock for a frame.
Doodle a flower and color it with markers.
Or put any other fun embellishment on the corners.
It's the colors that make it work.
And of course the smile.

And here is a layout I did showcasing my daughters Mishloach Manos from a few years back.
Aren't they cute?
I told her to think of something to create that won't cost a lot.
She loves slurpees from 7-11.
So she came up with this idea.
What a great imagination she has.

So remember.
Smile.
A lot.

And be happy.

THE JOY YOU PUT OUT WILL COME BACK TO YOU.

If you see a friend without a smile, give him one of yours.
Because of your smile you make life more beautiful.
For yourself.
For someone else.
Forever!
Happy Purim.

Happily obsessed...

My daughter laughs at me.
She says I become an obsessed person when I find something new to do.
So what if I am?
Right now I am a 'little' obsessed with zentangle.
I think it's because all you need is 2 things and you're off.
With scrapbooking I have to schlep out all my stuff.
Cover the kitchen table with glue, tape, paint etc...
That's the easy part.
The worst of it is that I have to clean up at the end of the day.
The schlepping begins when I have to put back all my portable drawers.
Down the stairs.
Ugh!
Now you can appreciate all the more how much I want to Scrapbook.
And the knitting takes concentration.
There's a time for that too.
But sometimes I want to just zone out.
As apposed to zoning IN.
So I doodle.
You might call it obsessed.
I call it 'happily' obsessed.
No harm done to anyone.

You have no idea how relaxing it is.
I would be surprised to know that you haven't tried this yet...
And still I am also 'happily' scrapbooking.
HAPPY stuff.
Colorful.
Making little moments count.

Not my finest artistic creations.
But they make me happy.
So happy.
Little tiny moments.
Strung into long memory necklaces...
By itself, nothing special.
Together - fabulous, gorgeous length of beauty...

Come Zentangle with me...

For many years I've thought about doing Yoga.
Or pilates.
Excersize for the body.
To be fit, healthy and calm.
I finally did it.
Yoga that is.
For the mind.
What?
For the MIND.
I've been doodling since I was a little girl in school.
As I grew older I became much better at it.
It was a great way to look like I was taking notes in class.
So you could imagine how much of that I did back in the day.
Finished school.
Stopped doodling.
Got married.
Had children. (B"H)
Went to learning class.
Started doodling again!
I never saw anyone else doing it, so I figured it was just me and my inability to focus without scribbling.
Enter the computor age.
Now it's me and a million other people who doodle.
Except there are people who take this really seriously.
Blogs and books.
Who knew?
And I learnt a new word for it: ZENTANGLE.
Doodling is for babies!
Zentangle.
Has a sophistication to it.
The more I explored this world of Zentangle, the more intrigued I became by it.
Now I am more than just a doodler.
I am a Zentangler.
Imagine that!
Last night I did my first real zentangle.
It was so pleasant.
Just me my marker, and my music...
Now I understand why it's called 'yoga for the mind'.
I will be filling this with color at some point, but for now here it is.
Presenting - my very first authentic Zentangles.......

If I say it's easy will you believe me?
Ok. Maybe it's a little intimidating, but there are videos galore you could see.
Then try it.
White cardstock.
You can start with regular paper if you want.
Fine point marker.
You're ready.
Easy as that.
Keep at it.
The little or big artist in you will emerge.
That I promise you.
Everyone has one living deep inside of them.
Remember, there's no wrong way to do it.
Only your way!
...and here is one of my 'old' ones.

I have a feeling some of you may try this.
Here's a good place to start.
Google 'zentangle' and go!
You will see.
The quieter your mind becomes, the more you can hear.
That's enough reason for me.
What about you?